Three Words We Long to Hear, Part 2: Sorry
May 3, 2026
In a world filled with pride and defensiveness, "sorry" often feels like the hardest word to utter. In this second part of our series, "Three Words We Long to Hear," Pastor Ken Curtis dives into the complex power of apology. Using the dramatic story of David and King Saul from 1 Samuel 26, we explore why a true apology requires absolute ownership—without the "ifs" or "buts" that we so often use to protect our egos. Is your apology a fleeting moment or a movement toward change? Join us as we reflect on the journey of repentance, the gradual process of sanctification, and the grace found at the communion table for those of us who are still "turning" toward the light.
Sermon Reflections:
- Pastor Ken notes that "sorry" is hard because it’s attached to pride. In what areas of your life does pride most often prevent you from admitting you’re wrong?
- We often say, "I'm sorry, but..." How does adding a justification or excuse change the impact of an apology?
- Looking at Saul’s confession in 1 Samuel 26, he admits he was a "fool." What does it look like to take full ownership of a mistake today?
- Saul said the right words but didn't change his behavior. Why are words alone insufficient for restoration?
- Repentance is described as turning a large ship—it takes time. Where in your life are you currently in the "gradual process" of changing direction?
- Who has God placed on your heart this week that needs to hear a sincere, unconditional "I'm sorry" from you?